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abandonment, borderline personality disorder and, 144, 146, 147–48, 149–50 遗弃，边缘型人格障碍与，144, 146, 147–48, 149–50
abuse, 187 虐待，187
avoidant people and history of, 160 回避者及其历史，160
dissociative events and, 77 解离事件与，77
objects of, dickectomy case example, 197–201 对象，切除阴茎案例示例，197–201
personality disorders and, 143 人格障碍与，143
suicidal clients and history of, 165 自杀倾向的客户及其历史，165
abusectomies 虐待切除术
dickectomy case example, 197–201 切除阴茎案例示例，197–201
ego state interventions and, 30 自我状态干预与，30
abusive partners 虐待伴侣
choosing, children with scary parents and, 113–14 选择，恐惧父母的孩子与，113–14
noticing and responding to state shifts in, 125 注意到并回应其状态的变化，125
setting firm limits on, 124 对其设定坚定的界限，124
acceptance, breathing into whole body, 189 接受，全身呼吸，189
adult capacities, current, using to protect and nurture, 78–84 当前的成人能力，用于保护和滋养，78–84
adult part(s) 成人部分
appropriate partner found with, 120–22 找到合适的伴侣与，120–22
borderline personality disorder case example, 146, 147, 148, 149, 150–51 边缘型人格障碍案例示例，146, 147, 148, 149, 150–51
characteristics of, 31 特点，31
disengaging from inappropriate partner and, 115–20 脱离不合适的伴侣与，115–20
finding appropriate partner and, 114–15 寻找合适的伴侣与，114–15
finding in two adults, 131–39 在两个成人中寻找，131–39
healthy relationships and, finding and staying in, 124–25 健康的关系与，发现并保持在其中，124–25
introducing and solidifying attributes for, 47–49 介绍并巩固其属性，47–49
qualities in good relationships and, 141 良好关系中的品质与，141
schizoid people and, 161 分裂型个体与，161
suicidal clients and, 165, 167–69, 172, 173, 176 自杀倾向的客户与，165, 167–69, 172, 173, 176
“adult” position, positive, “成人”位置，正面，
functional ego states and, 43 功能性自我状态与，43
adult presence, in relationships, 122–25 关系中的成人存在，122–25
adult relationships, tasks of, 123–24 成人关系的任务，123–24
adult states, resourced, connecting child states to, 97 有资源支持的成人状态，连接儿童状态与，97
“Adventuring Spirit” exercise, 76 “探险精神”练习，76
affect regulation, ego state work and, 78 情感调节，自我状态工作与，78
agency, building in client, 171 代理权，在客户中建立，171
Alcoholics Anonymous, 49 酗酒者匿名互助会，49
amnesia, between parts, 37 部分之间的失忆，37
amygdala, 65, 101 杏仁核，65, 101
anger 愤怒
borderline personality disorder case example, 148, 149–51 边缘型人格障碍案例示例，148, 149–51
containing, in fears of merging in relationship, 125–31 在合并恐惧中的控制，125–31
ANPs. see apparently normal parts (ANPs) ANPs. 见显然正常的部分（ANPs）
anxiety, 65 焦虑，65
of being different from partner, tolerating, 123 忍受与伴侣不同，123
containing, in fears of merging in relationship, 125–31 在合并恐惧中的控制，125–31
anxious adult clients, rekindling “explorer” part in, 76–77 焦虑的成年客户，在其中重新点燃“探索者”部分，76–77
apparently normal parts (ANPs), 30 显然正常的部分（ANPs），30
abuse survivors and, 198 虐待幸存者与，198
enhancing functional ego states and, 44–45 增强功能性自我状态与，44–45
functions of, 41–42 功能，41–42
narcissistic clients and, 152–53, 154, 155, 156, 161 自恋型客户与，152–53, 154, 155, 156, 161
personality disorders, secondary dissociation and, 143, 144 人格障碍，次级解离与，143, 144
PTSD and, 38 PTSD与，38
safe places and protection of, 73 安全的地方和保护，73
secondary dissociation and, 38 次级解离与，38
suicidal DID client and, 176 自杀倾向的DID客户与，176
suicidal ideation with dissociative clients and, 174, 175 解离性客户与自杀意念与，174, 175
appropriate partner, finding, 120–22, 151 找到合适的伴侣，120–22, 151
attachment 依附
neural networks and, 75 神经网络与，75
secure, “Adventuring Spirit” exercise and, 76 安全的，“探险精神”练习与，76
attachment circuitry, enhancing, 59 增强依附回路，59
attachment deficits 依附缺陷
personality disorders and, 143 人格障碍与，143
self-loathing in avoidant people and, 160 回避者中的自我厌恶与，160
suicide risk and, 163–64 自杀风险与，163–64
attachment disorders, dissociative ego states and, 35–37 依附障碍，解离性自我状态与，35–37
attachment figures, safe place with, 57–60 依附人物，安全的地方与，57–60
attachment histories, relationships and, 113 依附历史，关系与，113
attachment-impaired states, characteristics of, 77 依附受损的状态，特点，77
avoidant people, working with, 160 回避者的工作，160
Bader, E., 131 巴德, E., 131
battered children, introjects and, 34 受虐儿童，摄取物与，34
Baylin, J., 27 贝林, J., 27
beliefs. see introjects 信念。见摄取物
Berne, E., 17 伯恩, E., 17
bilateral stimulation 双边刺激
introject clearance and, 186 摄取物清除与，186
trauma work and, 102 创伤工作与，102
see also eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) 另见眼动脱敏和再处理（EMDR）
bipolar disorder, suicidal ideation and, 164 双相障碍，自杀意念与，164
bodily sensations, introjects and, 185 躯体感觉，摄取物与，185
body image introjects, 191 身体形象摄取物，191
borderline personality disorder, 35, 85, 116 边缘型人格障碍，35, 85, 116
case example, 144–51 案例示例，144–51
personable ANP of clients with, 161 具有此障碍的客户的友善ANP，161
boundaries, 126, 129, 130 界限，126, 129, 130
adult states and, 123 成人状态与，123
personality disorders and, 143 人格障碍与，143
brain, trauma and, 101 大脑，创伤与，101
bullying 欺凌
ego state therapy and, 107, 108–11 自我状态疗法与，107, 108–11
suicidal clients and, 166, 171–72, 173 自杀倾向的客户与，166, 171–72, 173
see also masculinity/bullying introjects 另见男性气质/欺凌摄取物
Calof, D., 17, 59 卡洛夫, D., 17, 59
case examples 案例示例
borderline personality disorder, 144–51 边缘型人格障碍，144–51
containing anxiety and anger in fears of merging, 125–31 合并恐惧中的焦虑和愤怒的控制，125–31
cultural introjects, 191–96 文化摄取物，191–96
dickectomy, 197–201 切除阴茎，197–201
disengaging from an inappropriate partner, 115–20 脱离不合适的伴侣，115–20
EMDR for repetitive trauma, 107–11 重复性创伤的EMDR，107–11
finding adults in two partners, 131–39 在两个伴侣中找到成人，131–39
intolerable experience, 170–74 难以忍受的经历，170–74
“not good enough to live,” 165–70 “不够好活下去”，165–70
parentectomy, 187–90 切除父母，187–90
protector in a dissociative client, 69–73 解离性客户中的保护者，69–73
PTSD from a single trauma, 103–5 单一创伤后的PTSD，103–5
safe place with a reluctant adult self, 62–65 勉强成人的自我与安全的地方，62–65
suicidal DID client, 176–80 自杀倾向的DID客户，176–80
using current adult capacities to protect and nurture, 78–84 利用当前的成人能力保护和滋养，78–84
working with a protector, 67–69 与保护者合作，67–69
working with dissociative infant states in older child, 85–97 与较大儿童中的解离性婴儿状态合作，85–97
child part(s) 儿童部分
abusectomy and, 197–98 虐待切除术与，197–98
borderline personality disorder case example, 146–48, 150 边缘型人格障碍案例示例，146–48, 150
disengaging from inappropriate partner and, 116–18, 119–20 脱离不合适的伴侣与，116–18, 119–20
ego state work and, 78 自我状态工作与，78
EMDR for repetitive trauma and, 108–11 重复性创伤的EMDR与，108–11
healthy relationships and, 124–25 健康的关系与，124–25
holding situation for, 63–64 为其提供的情境，63–64
repetitive trauma that is no longer occurring and, 106, 107 不再发生的重复性创伤与，106, 107
schizoid people and, 161 分裂型个体与，161
suicidal clients and, 165, 167–69, 171 自杀倾向的客户与，165, 167–69, 171
suicidal DID client and, 176, 177, 179 自杀倾向的DID客户与，176, 177, 179
troubled, inappropriate partner choices and, 114 困扰的，不合适的伴侣选择与，114
“warrior” role enlisted as protector of, 79 “战士”角色作为保护者被征召，79
child states 儿童状态
connecting to resourced adult states, 97 连接至有资源支持的成人状态，97
healthy resources and, 76–77 健康资源与，76–77
working with, 84–97 与其工作，84–97
CIMBS. see complex integration of multiple brain systems (CIMBS) CIMBS. 见多个大脑系统的复杂整合（CIMBS）
“closet” narcissists “隐藏”的自恋者
apparently normal parts and, 153 显然正常的部分与，153
characteristics of, 152 特点，152
competent function, “building in” experience of, 45 胜任的功能，“构建”其体验，45
complex dissociation, ego state therapy and, 111 复杂的解离，自我状态疗法与，111
complex integration of multiple brain systems (CIMBS), trauma treatment and, 102 多个大脑系统的复杂整合（CIMBS），创伤治疗与，102
complex trauma, 102 复杂创伤，102
conference room of resources, developing and using, 47–49 资源会议室，开发和使用，47–49
containment, ego state work and, 78 包容，自我状态工作与，78
Coping with Trauma-Related Dissociation (Boon & Steele), 19 应对创伤相关解离（Boon & Steele），19
core part, characteristics of, 31 核心部分的特点，31
counting method, trauma treatment and, 102 计数方法，创伤治疗与，102
Cozolino, L., 113 科佐利诺, L., 113
cultural expectations 文化期望
heavy “positive,” disowning, 194–96 沉重的“正面”，放弃，194–96
negative and positive, 184 负面和正面，184
suicide risk and “difference” from, 164 自杀风险与“差异”，164
cultural introjects, 183, 191–96 文化摄取物，183, 191–96
body image, 191 身体形象，191
masculinity/bullying, 192–94 男性气质/欺凌，192–94
money, 191–92 金钱，191–92
parental and cultural expectations, 194–97 父母和文化期望，194–97
cultural trauma, disowning, narrative therapy and, 184 文化创伤，放弃，叙事疗法与，184
culturectomies, ego state interventions and, 30 文化切除术，自我状态干预与，30
dangerous partners, setting firm limits on, 124 危险伴侣，设定坚定的界限，124
deep breathing, 87, 92, 96 深呼吸，87, 92, 96
denied parts of client, safe place for, 60–61 被否认的部分，为其提供安全的地方，60–61
depressed adult clients, rekindling “explorer” part in, 76–77 抑郁的成年客户，在其中重新点燃“探索者”部分，76–77
DID. see dissociative identity disorder (DID) DID. 见解离性身份障碍（DID）
differentiation 分化
former vs. current relationship and, 140 过去的与当前的关系对比，140
idealized mate vs. current one and, 140 理想化的伴侣与当前的伴侣对比，140
in relationships, 123, 131 在关系中，123, 131
suicidal clients and, 181 自杀倾向的客户与，181
dismissive attachment style, 79 排斥性的依附风格，79
“dismissive” states, 77 “排斥性”状态，77
dissociated ego states, trauma, state-specific beliefs, and, 101 解离的自我状态，创伤，特定状态的信念与，101
dissociated parts, integrating, 95–97 解离的部分，整合，95–97
dissociation, 19 解离，19
assessing, 37–40 评估，37–40
complex, ego state therapy and, 111 复杂的，自我状态疗法与，111
screening tools for, 39 筛查工具，39
three levels of, 38 三个层次，38
dissociative clients 解离性客户
introjects and working with, 201 摄取物与工作，201
protector in, case example, 69–73 案例示例中的保护者，69–73
safe place and, 58 安全的地方与，58
suicidal ideation and, 164, 170–84 自杀意念与，164, 170–84
dissociative disorders, not otherwise specified, 85 未另行指明的解离性障碍，85
Dissociative Disorders Interview Schedule, 39 解离性障碍访谈计划，39
dissociative ego states, understanding, 35–37 理解解离的自我状态，35–37
Dissociative Experiences Scale, 39 解离体验量表，39
dissociative identity disorder (DID), 17, 38, 39, 52 解离性身份障碍（DID），17, 38, 39, 52
healing pool for clients with, 62 为这些客户提供疗愈池，62
multifragmented suicidal DID client, case example, 176–80 多重碎片化的自杀倾向的DID客户，案例示例，176–80
preexisting dissociative protectors and, 66 既有的解离性保护者与，66
suicidal ideation and, 164 自杀意念与，164
dissociative infant states, in older child, working with, 85–97 在较大的儿童中，与解离性婴儿状态工作，85–97
dissociative parts 解离的部分
phobia of, 63 对它们的恐惧，63
trauma states and, 77 创伤状态与，77
dissociative protectors, preexisting, 66 既有的解离性保护者，66
dissociative responses 解离反应
description of, 36 描述，36
organized abuse clients and, 61 有组织的虐待客户与，61
dissociative state therapy, 18 解离状态疗法，18
dissociative table technique, abusectomy and, 197 解离表格技术，虐待切除术与，197
documentation, suicidal clients and, 181 文档记录，自杀倾向的客户与，181
dysfunctional child states, 77–78 功能失调的儿童状态，77–78
attachment-impaired states, 77 依附受损的状态，77
trauma states, 77 创伤状态，77
dysfunctional ego states 功能失调的自我状态
nondissociative, 33–34 非解离的，33–34
types of, 32–33 类型，32–33
understanding, 32–37 理解，32–37
dysfunctional protectors, unzipping, 66–67 功能失调的保护者，解开，66–67
dysfunctional states, definition of, 32 功能失调状态的定义，32
eating habits, abusectomy and improvement in, 201 饮食习惯，虐待切除术与改善，201
ego, 17 自我，17
ego state interventions 自我状态干预
general, example of, 15–17 一般的，示例，15–17
reasons for, 29–30 原因，29–30
ego states 自我状态
creation of, in childhood, 78 在童年时期创造，78
definition of, 27 定义，27
delineating, two-hand technique and, 51–53 界定，双手技巧与，51–53
dissociative, understanding, 35–37 解离的，理解，35–37
dysfunctional, understanding, 32–37 功能失调的，理解，32–37
metaphors for, 19 隐喻，19
permeable boundaries of, 36 可渗透的边界，36
relationships and, 123 关系与，123
resourced, understanding, 30–31 有资源支持的，理解，30–31
Ego States: Theory and Therapy (Watkins & Watkins), 19 自我状态：理论与治疗（沃特金斯和沃特金斯），19
ego state therapy, 161 自我状态疗法，161
narcissistic clients and, 155 自恋型客户与，155
primary goal of, 41 主要目标，41
suicidal ideation and, 163 自杀意念与，163
trauma treatment with, 102, 108–11 创伤治疗与，102, 108–11
universality of, 18 普遍性，18
EMDR. see eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) EMDR. 见眼动脱敏和再处理（EMDR）
EMDR Toolbox: Theory and Treatment of Complex PTSD and Dissociation (Knipe), 19 EMDR工具箱：复杂PTSD和解离的理论与治疗（奈普），19
emotional parts (EPs), 38 情感部分（EPs），38
narcissistic clients and, 156, 153, 154, 155 自恋型客户与，156, 153, 154, 155
personality disorders, secondary dissociation, and, 143, 144 人格障碍，次级解离与，143, 144
suicidal ideation with dissociative clients and, 174 解离性客户与自杀意念与，174
“exhibitionist” narcissists “炫耀型”自恋者
apparently normal parts and, 152–53 显然正常的部分与，152–53
case example, 153–60 案例示例，153–60
experiential dynamic psychotherapy 体验动力心理治疗
accelerated, trauma treatment and, 102 加速的，创伤治疗与，102
“explorer” part “探索者”部分
rekindling for inhibited, anxious, depressed clients, 76–77 重新点燃抑制的、焦虑的、抑郁的客户，76–77
exposure therapies 暴露疗法
trauma treatment and, 102 创伤治疗与，102
external resources, 31 外部资源，31
eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR), 17, 119, 161, 187 眼动脱敏和再处理（EMDR），17, 119, 161, 187
abusectomies and, 197 虐待切除术与，197
borderline personality disorder case example, 148 边缘型人格障碍案例示例，148
introject clearance and, 186 摄取物清除与，186
narcissistic clients and use of, 155, 156 自恋型客户与使用，155, 156
for repetitive trauma, case example, 107–11 重复性创伤的案例示例，107–11
simple trauma treatment and, 103 简单创伤治疗与，103
trauma treatment and, 102 创伤治疗与，102
familial introjects, 183 家族摄取物，183
familiar roles, positive, functional ego states and, 43 熟悉的积极角色，功能性自我状态与，43
fear 恐惧
examining veracity of, 87–89 检查其真实性，87–89
switching to sadness from, 109 从恐惧切换到悲伤，109
feeling states, specific, finding, 44 具体的情感状态，寻找，44
firearms in home, suicide and, 164 家中有枪支，自杀与，164
Freud, S., 17 弗洛伊德, S., 17
functional ego states 功能性自我状态
enhancing, 44–45 增强，44–45
positive, creating, 42–44 创建正面的，42–44
future functional self, 45–47 未来的功能性自我，45–47
“future pacing” situations, 50 “未来步调”情境，50
gender, suicide attempts and, 164 性别，自杀企图与，164
gender expectations, introjects and, 186 性别期望，摄取物与，186
gender norms, rigid, bullying and, 192 僵化的性别规范，欺凌与，192
generational trauma, disowning, narrative therapy and, 184 代际创伤，放弃，叙事疗法与，184
genograms, 154 家谱图，154
Gilligan, S., 117 吉利根, S., 117
Gottman, J. M., 132 戈特曼, J. M., 132
grief 哀伤
body image introjects and, 191 身体形象摄取物与，191
disengaging from inappropriate partner and, 117, 120 脱离不合适的伴侣与，117, 120
grounding, 87 扎根，87
Haunted Self, The (van der Hart, Nijenhuis, & Steele), 19 受困的自我（范德哈特, 尼延赫伊斯, & 斯蒂尔），19
healing place(s) 疗愈之地
for organized abuse clients, 61–62 为有组织的虐待客户，61–62
for traumatized clients, 56–57 为创伤客户，56–57
healing pool, for sexually abused and DID clients, 62, 177 为遭受性虐待和DID客户提供的疗愈池，62, 177
Healing the Heart of Trauma and Dissociation (Forgash & Copely), 19 治愈创伤和解离的心灵（福尔加什 & 科佩利），19
here-and-now part 此时此刻的部分
repetitive trauma that is no longer occurring and, 106 不再发生的重复性创伤与，106
simple trauma treatment and, 102 简单创伤治疗与，102
hippocampus, trauma and, 101 海马体，创伤与，101
histrionic people, 160 戏剧型人，160
holding situation, for child parts, 63–64 为儿童部分提供的情境，63–64
hospitalization, suicidal clients and, 180 住院治疗，自杀倾向的客户与，180
Hughes, D., 27 休斯, D., 27
hypnotic inductions, safe place interventions as, 61 催眠导入，作为安全地方的干预措施，61
hypnotic therapy, 184 催眠疗法，184
id, 17 本我，17
“I don’t need anyone” defensive states, 77 “我不需要任何人”的防御状态，77
“I have to do everything by myself,” finding alternatives to, 47 “我必须独自完成所有事情”，找到替代方案，47
imaginal nurturing, 78 想象中的养育，78
immobilized states 停滞状态
apparently normal parts and, 41 表面正常的部分与，41
characteristics of, 32–33 特征，32–33
inappropriate partners 不合适的伴侣
avoiding, adult part and, 114–15 避免，成人部分与，114–15
disengaging from, 115–20 脱离，115–20
incarceration, suicide risk and, 163 监禁，自杀风险与，163
infant identity, caretaker treatment and, 183 婴儿身份，照顾者的治疗与，183
infant part, troubled, inappropriate partner choices and, 114 困扰的婴儿部分，不合适的伴侣选择与，114
infant states 婴儿状态
dissociative, working with in older child, 85–97 解离性的，在较大儿童中工作，85–97
well-attached, calling on, 76 依附良好的，召唤，76
inhibited adult clients, rekindling “explorer” part in, 76–77 受抑制的成年客户，在其中重燃“探索者”部分，76–77
insomnia, healing place and, 59 失眠，疗愈之地与，59
“Integration of the Internal Family Systems Model (IFS) and EMDR, The” (Twombly and Schwartz), 17 《内部家庭系统模型（IFS）和EMDR的整合》（Twombly 和 Schwartz），17
internalized oppression, introjects and, 184 内化的压迫，摄取物与，184
internal resources, locating and harnessing, 41 内在资源，定位并利用，41
internal scientist, 31 内在科学家，31
internal security, souped-up, for organized abuse clients, 62 加强的内在安全感，为有组织的虐待客户，62
International Society for Study of Trauma and Dissociation, 17, 21 国际创伤与解离研究学会，17, 21
intersubjectivity, 157 主体间性，157
intimacy, adult states and, 123, 141 亲密，成人状态与，123, 141
introjects 摄取物
clearing, steps to, 185–86 清除，步骤，185–86
definition of, 184 定义，184
kinds of, 186 种类，186
modeling of, 33 模仿，33
positive, 183 积极的，183
suicidal DID client and, 178–79 自杀倾向的DID客户与，178–79
understanding, 34–35 理解，34–35
inventive early selves, rediscovering, 84 重新发现早期创新的自我，84
joyful early selves, rediscovering, 84 重新发现早期快乐的自我，84
Kiessling, R., 47 基辛格, R., 47
Knipe, J., 43, 70 克奈普, J., 43, 70
lawsuits, client suicides and, 181 诉讼，客户自杀与，181
life span integrationmodified, borderline personality disorder case example, 146 生命历程整合修改版，边缘型人格障碍案例示例，146
simple trauma treatment and, 103 简单创伤治疗与，103
variations on, 80, 158 变体，80, 158
love 爱
adult states and, 123 成人状态与，123
breathing into whole body, 189 全身呼吸，189
unconditional, 157, 158 无条件的，157, 158
masculinity/bullying introjects, 192–94 男性气质/欺凌摄取物，192–94
Masterson, J., 152 马斯特森, J., 152
men, suicide attempts by, 164 男性，自杀企图，164
merging in relationship, containing anxiety and anger in, 125–31 关系中的融合，包含焦虑和愤怒，125–31
metaphors, 19 隐喻，19
mind control clients 精神控制客户
preexisting dissociative protectors and, 66 既有的解离性保护者与，66
safe and healing places and, 61–62 安全和疗愈之地与，61–62
specialized treatment needed for, 38 需要专门治疗，38
suicidal ideation and, 175 自杀意念与，175
mobilized states 动员状态
apparently normal parts and, 41 表面正常的部分与，41
protective, characteristics of, 32 保护性的，特征，32
money introjects, 191–92 金钱摄取物，191–92
narcissistic clients 自恋型客户
case example, 153–60 案例示例，153–60
“closet,” 152, 153 “隐藏的”，152, 153
dismissive ANP and, 161 排斥性的ANP与，161
“exhibitionist,” 152, 153 “炫耀型”，152, 153
working with, 152–60 与之工作，152–60
narrative therapy, 184 叙事疗法，184
negative cultural expectations, 184 负面的文化期望，184
neglect, suicidal clients and history of, 165 忽视，自杀倾向的客户与历史，165
Negri, T., 17 内格里, T., 17
Neurobiology and Treatment of Traumatic Dissociation: Towards an Embodied Self (Lanius & Paulsen), 19 创伤解离的神经生物学与治疗：走向一个具身的自我（拉尼乌斯 & 保罗森），19
neurolinguistic programming, 184 神经语言程序设计，184
neuronal connections, 神经元连接，
preparing for the future and, 28 为未来做准备与，28
Nijenhuis, E., 39 尼延赫伊斯, E., 39
nondissociative dysfunctional ego states, 33–34 非解离的功能失调自我状态，33–34
nurturing, using current 养育，使用当前
adult capacities for, 78–84 成人的能力，78–84
nurturing inside, positive states and, 50 内在养育，积极状态与，50
nurturing parts, characteristics of, 31 养育部分，特征，31
object relations theory, introjects and, 184 客体关系理论，摄取物与，184
obsessive-compulsive disorder, 85, 87 强迫症，85, 87
older child, working with dissociative infant states in, 85–97 较大儿童，在其中工作解离性婴儿状态，85–97
oldest/wisest part, 31 最老/最聪明的部分，31
appropriate partner chosen with, 151 适当的选择伴侣，151
body image introjects and, 191 身体形象摄取物与，191
finding adult part in healthy relationship and, 124 在健康的关系中找到成人部分与，124
see also positive functional ego states 另见积极的功能性自我状态
opiate responses, reflexive, partner choices and, 113, 115 阿片类药物反应，反射性的，伴侣选择与，113, 115
organized abuse clients 有组织的虐待客户
preexisting dissociative protectors and, 66 既有的解离性保护者与，66
safe and healing places with, 61–62 安全和疗愈之地与，61–62
suicidality and, 165 自杀倾向与，165
Panksepp, J., 27 潘克塞普, J., 27
parental expectations, 194–96 父母的期望，194–96
parentectomy(ies) 亲子切断
case example, 187–90 案例示例，187–90
ego state interventions and, 30 自我状态干预与，30
partners 伴侣
appropriate, finding, 120–22, 151 寻找合适的，120–22, 151
being an adult in a relationship, 122–25 在关系中作为成年人，122–25
good, finding with adult part, 114–15 好的，通过成人部分找到，114–15
inappropriate, disengaging from, 115–20 不合适的，脱离，115–20
parts 部分
introject clearance and, 185 摄取物清除与，185
relationships and permutations of, 123 关系及其组合，123
suicidal ideation and, 164 自杀意念与，164
see also adult part(s); apparently normal parts (ANPs); child part(s); emotional parts (EPs) 另见成人部分；表面正常部分；儿童部分；情绪部分
Pearson, P., 131 皮尔森, P., 131
personality disorders, 38 人格障碍，38
attachment histories of people with, 143 这些人的人际依附历史，143
avoidant and schizoid people, 160–61 回避性和分裂性的人，160–61
borderline personality disorder, 143–51 边缘型人格障碍，143–51
histrionic people, 160 戏剧性的人，160
narcissism, 152–60 自恋，152–60
suicidal ideation and, 164 自杀意念与，164
phase-oriented treatment, three steps to healing in, 145 阶段导向治疗，三个治疗步骤，145
phobic clients, safe place and, 57 恐惧症客户，安全的地方与，57
playful early selves, rediscovering, 84 重新发现早期爱玩的自我，84
polyvagal theory, 152 多迷走神经理论，152
positive cultural expectations, 184 积极的文化期望，184
positive functional ego states 积极的功能性自我状态
accessing and fostering, 42 接触和培养，42
“adult” and, 43 “成人”与，43
conference room of resources and, 47–49 资源会议室与，47–49
creating, 42–44 创建，42–44
effective psychotherapy and, 53 有效的心理治疗与，53
familiar roles and, 43 熟悉的职责与，43
future functional self, 45–47 未来的功能性自我，45–47
new, inventing, 45–53 新的，发明，45–53
religious or spiritual connections and, 49–50 宗教或精神联系与，49–50
specific adult skills and feeling states and, 43–44 特定的成人技能和感觉状态与，43–44
two-hand technique and, 51–53 两手技术与，51–53
using, 50–51 使用，50–51
positive introjects, 34 积极的摄取物，34
positive states, using, 50–51 使用积极状态，50–51
posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), 38 创伤后应激障碍（PTSD），38
preexisting dissociative 既有的解离性
protectors and, 66 保护者与，66
from single trauma, case example, 103–5 单一创伤的案例示例，103–5
suicidal ideation and, 164 自杀意念与，164
suicide risk and, 163 自杀风险与，163
symptoms of, 103 症状，103
. see trauma . 见创伤
primary dissociation, 38 初级解离，38
projections, pulling out, in relationships, 140 关系中的投射，移除，140
protection 保护
positive states and, 50–51 积极状态与，50–51
using current adult capacities for, 78–84 使用当前成人的能力，78–84
protective parts 保护部分
characteristics of, 31 特征，31
preexisting and dysfunctional, 65–73 既有的和功能失调的，65–73
protectors 保护者
in dissociative client, case example, 69–73 解离性客户的案例示例，69–73
dysfunctional, unzipping, 66–67 功能失调的，解开，66–67
working with, case example, 67–69 与之工作的案例示例，67–69
psychotic disorders, 精神病障碍，
suicidal ideation and, 自杀意念与，
164 164
PTSD. see posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) PTSD。见创伤后应激障碍（PTSD）
rape 强奸
childhood, dissociative events and, 77 童年，与解离事件，77
dickectomy case example, 197–201 阴茎切除的案例示例，197–201
reason, adult states and, 123 理性，成人状态与，123
reflexive dissociative states, child states and, 84 反射性解离状态，儿童状态与，84
rejected parts of client, safe place for, 60–61 被拒绝的客户部分，安全的地方，60–61
relational therapies, trauma treatment and, 102 关系疗法，创伤治疗与，102
relationship challenges 关系挑战
attachment histories and, 113 依附历史与，113
being an adult in a relationship, 122–25 在关系中作为成年人，122–25
containing anxiety and anger in fears of merging, 125–31 在合并恐惧中包含焦虑和愤怒，125–31
differentiation issues, 123, 131, 140 区分问题，123, 131, 140
disengaging from an inappropriate partner, 115–20 脱离不合适的伴侣，115–20
finding adults in two partners, 131–39 在两个伴侣中找到成年人，131–39
finding an appropriate partner, 120–22 寻找合适的伴侣，120–22
pulling out a projection, 140 移除一个投射，140
religious connection, as positive resource, 49–50 宗教联系，作为积极资源，49–50
reluctant adult self, safe place with, case example, 62–65 勉强成人的自我，安全的地方，案例示例，62–65
reparative nurturing, ego state work and, 78 修复性的养育，自我状态工作与，78
repetitive trauma, that is no longer occurring, 106–7 不再发生的重复性创伤，106–7
resourced ego states 资源充足的自我状态
types of, 31 类型，31
understanding, 30–31 理解，30–31
resources, conference room of, developing and using, 47–49 资源，开发和使用资源会议室，47–49
ritual abuse clients 仪式虐待客户
preexisting dissociative protectors and, 66 既有的解离性保护者与，66
safe and healing places and, 61–62 安全和疗愈之地与，61–62
specialized treatment needed for, 38 需要专门治疗，38
suicidal ideation and, 175 自杀意念与，175
Ross, C., 39 罗斯, C., 39
sadness, switch from fear to, 109 从恐惧到悲伤的转换，109
“safe place” exercises, ubiquity of, 55, 73 “安全之地”练习的普遍性，55, 73
safe place intervention(s) 基本的安全之地干预，55–56
as hypnotic inductions, 61 作为催眠诱导，61
safe place(s) 安全之地
with attachment figures, 57–60 与依恋对象一起，57–60
for client’s rejected or denied parts, 60–61 用于客户拒绝或否认的部分，60–61
for organized abuse clients, 61–62 用于有组织虐待的客户，61–62
with reluctant adult self, 62–65 与勉强成人的自我一起，62–65
using, 73 使用，73
“scared kid” states, social anxiety and, 33–34 “害怕的小孩”状态与社交焦虑，33–34
schizoid people, 160–61 分裂型的人，160–61
schizoid personality disorder, 35 分裂型人格障碍，35
Schnarch, D., 123 施纳奇, D., 123
Schwartz, R., 17 施瓦茨, R., 17
secondary dissociation, 38 次级解离，38
security, souped-up, for organized abuse clients, 62 加强的安全感，用于有组织虐待的客户，62
“self” figure, 57 “自我”形象，57
self-loathing, avoidant people and, 160 自我憎恨，回避型的人与，160
self-soothing, adult relationships and, 123 自我安慰，成人关系与，123
sensitive children, introjects and, 34 敏感的儿童，摄取物与，34
separation anxiety, vanquishing, “Adventuring Spirit” exercise and, 76 克服分离焦虑，“探险精神”练习与，76
sexual abuse 性虐待
dickectomy case example, 197–201 阴茎切除案例示例，197–201
healing place for survivors of, 57 幸存者的疗愈之地，57
ritualized, suicidal DID client with history of, 176 仪式化的，有性虐待史的自杀倾向DID客户，176
sexual assault, suicidal client and, 165–66 性侵，自杀倾向的客户与，165–66
sexually abused children, introjects and, 34–35 遭受性虐待的儿童，摄取物与，34–35
sexual trauma, suicide risk and, 163 性创伤，自杀风险与，163
shame technique, 70 羞耻技巧，70
Silver, N., 132 西尔弗, N., 132
simple trauma, treating, 102–3 简单创伤的治疗，102–3
single trauma, PTSD from, case example, 103–5 单一创伤导致的PTSD案例示例，103–5
skills, specific, finding, 44 特定技能的寻找，44
Slaughterhouse Five (Vonnegut), 176 五号屠宰场（冯内古特），176
somatic therapies, 161 躯体治疗，161
abusectomies and, 197 切除虐待与，197
trauma treatment and, 102 创伤治疗与，102
somatoform dissociation, evaluating, 39 躯体型解离的评估，39
Somatoform Questionnaire, 39 躯体型问卷，39
“soundproof, feeling-proof” rooms 隔音、隔绝情感的房间
organized abuse clients and, 62 有组织虐待的客户与，62
rejected or denied parts and, 60 被拒绝或否认的部分与，60
spiritual connection, as positive resource, 49–50 灵性联系，作为积极资源，49–50
spiritual core, characteristics of, 31 灵性核心，特征，31
splitting 分裂
abuse survivors and, 197, 198, 200 虐待幸存者与，197, 198, 200
trauma states and, 77 创伤状态与，77
“states,” asking about, 20. see also parts 询问“状态”，20。另见部分
Steele, A., 76, 78, 116 斯蒂尔, A., 76, 78, 116
Steele, K., 36 斯蒂尔, K., 36
still face experiment, 35 静止面孔实验，35
structural dissociation theory, 38, 143, 152 结构解离理论，38, 143, 152
narcissistic clients and, 152, 155 自恋型客户与，152, 155
suicidal or self-destructive alters and, 174 自杀或自我毁灭的交替人格与，174
suicidal clients 自杀倾向的客户
beyond ego state therapy for, 180–81 超越自我状态疗法，180–81
differentiation and, 181 区分与，181
intolerable experience case example, 170–74 无法忍受的经历案例示例，170–74
multifragmented DID case example, 176–80 多重分裂的DID案例示例，176–80
“not good enough to live” case example, 165–70 “不够好活下去”案例示例，165–70
questions for, 165 问题，165
suicidal ideation 自杀意念
ego state work and treatment of, 163 自我状态工作及治疗，163
highly dissociative clients and, 174–80 高度解离的客户与，174–80
risk factors for, 164 风险因素，164
suicide 自杀
assessing clients for, 164–65 评估客户，164–65
lawsuits against therapists and, 181 对治疗师的诉讼与，181
risk factors for, 163–64 风险因素，163–64
statistics about, in United States, 163–64 美国的相关统计数据，163–64
superego, 17 超我，17
suspicion of others, working on, 81–83 对他人的怀疑，处理，81–83
“switching places,” specialized, organized abuse clients and, 62 “互换位置”，专门的，有组织虐待的客户与，62
task management, positive states and, 50 任务管理，积极状态与，50
tertiary dissociation, 38, 39 三级解离，38, 39
therapeutic relationship 治疗关系
avoidant and schizoid clients and, 161 回避型和分裂型客户与，161
narcissistic clients and, 153, 154, 155, 161 自恋型客户与，153, 154, 155, 161
personality disordered clients and, 143 人格障碍客户与，143
therapy, primary goal of, 41 治疗的主要目标，41
“there’s only danger,” finding alternative thoughts and experiences for, 46 “只有危险”，寻找替代的想法和体验，46
time travel, simple trauma treatment and, 103 时间旅行，简单创伤治疗与，103
toddler part, “Adventuring Spirit” exercise and, 76 幼儿部分，“探险精神”练习与，76
torture, ritualized, suicidal DID client with history of, 176 仪式化的酷刑，有此历史的自杀倾向DID客户，176
transactional analysis, 17 交易分析，17
trauma 创伤
complex, 102 复杂的，102
dysfunctional preexisting protective parts and, 65–66 功能失调的既有的保护部分与，65–66
ego state therapy and treatment of, 102 自我状态疗法及治疗，102
personality disorders and history of, 143 人格障碍与历史，143
repetitive, 106–11 重复的，106–11
simple, 101, 102–5 简单的，101, 102–5
single, PTSD from, 103–5 单一的，由此产生的PTSD，103–5
suicidal client and, 165 自杀倾向的客户与，165
working with, 101–11 处理，101–11
see also posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD) 另见创伤后应激障碍（PTSD）
trauma states, splits and, 77 创伤状态，分裂与，77
traumatic experiences, neural imprinting of, 29 创伤经历，神经印记，29
traumatized clients, healing place for, 56–57 创伤后的客户，疗愈之地，56–57
Tronick, E., 35 特罗尼克, E., 35
“two-chair” technique, 17 “两把椅子”技术，17
two-hand technique, 51–53 两手技术，51–53
body image introjects and, 191 身体形象摄取物与，191
disengaging from inappropriate partner and use of, 116 脱离不合适的伴侣并使用，116
moving entrenched cultural distress with, 184 移动根深蒂固的文化痛苦与，184
suicidal client and use of, 169 自杀倾向的客户与使用，169
Twombly, J., 17, 60, 62 图姆布利, J., 17, 60, 62
unconditional love, 157, 158 无条件的爱，157, 158
unspecified dissociative disorders, preexisting dissociative protectors and, 66 未指定的解离性障碍，既有的解离性保护者与，66
van der Hart, O., 20 范德哈特, O., 20
Vietnam veterans, working with, 33 越南退伍军人，处理，33
visualization, of healing and safe places, 56–57 疗愈和安全之地的可视化，56–57
Vonnegut, K., 176 冯内古特, K., 176
vulnerability, gaining tolerance for, 81 脆弱性，获得容忍，81
“warrior” role, enlisting as protector of kid parts, 79 “战士”角色，招募为孩子部分的保护者，79
White, M., 184 怀特, M., 184
women, suicide attempts by, 164 女性，自杀企图，164